What Not To Say To Women On The First Few Dates

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Women are a species on their own, believe me, I have been around them for a long time, there is nothing else like them on this planet, and probably any other! Now you would think that after all this time I would understand them. Forget it! If you go on that premise then you are in for heartache and grief.

For some men dates may as well be the fruits of the palm tree, they can’t seem to get it right. You know the type, they open their mouth, and then need the Mariana trench to bury themselves. Here is a list of things not to say, because for sure they will be misinterpreted, by the alien female species.

“OOH YOU LOOK JUST LIKE YOUR MUM!”
Even if her mum is the sexiest looking woman in the universe this gambit opens a huge can of worms. First you are suggesting that she looks old! Secondly you are suggesting she is an extension of someone else. This might seem an easy throw away line, but do just that with it throw it out of your repertoire. This is the number one turn off for women to be compared to their mothers. The relationship between mothers and daughters is always a mine field and this will never be understood by the male species. I am not sure that women even understand it. Believe me no woman ever, whatever their age, wants to be compared to her mother.

“CAN I BRING THE KIDS?”
Let’s assume that she knows that you have Kids. If she does then you may as well say “hey girl I need a babysitter”. Your date needs to feel that you want to get to know her for herself, not as a surrogate mother. Let her suggest when to include the kids. It goes without saying that if she does not know that you have kids then, you have just shot yourself in the foot.

“I AM ONLY AVAILABLE ON THURSDAYS!”
There may be a myriad of great reasons why you should want to say this, such as I look after my elderly mother; I am an avid train spotter, etcetera etcetera . However you have to remember that women are highly suspicious and they are going to think “He’s definitely married” This may be illogical, it may be adding two and two and getting 3058, but trust me that is what this statement means “marriage”, there is no other interpretation. You may think that your date is more mature and you can get away with this. Age only reinforces this dubiousness.

“I HAVE NEVER HAD A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP”
The only way that you can get away with this line is if you are under 10 years of age. Women want to find their dream man and no one is going to waste time on a date that does not want a relationship. Women are natural born optimists, but they want a man to share their life with, and be able to converse on the same level. By saying this you are effectively saying “I come from the planet Zanussi!” Women invest more emotions into a relationship than a regular guy. Trust is a key issue here, and this has destroyed any chance of establishing it.

“I WANT TO SETTLE DOWN AND HAVE SIX KIDS”
This may seem like contrary advice, I have just said that women want a relationship, yeah I did, but women are different creatures, live with it!. They may want a relationship, but they do not want to be appreciated as a “battery hen”, at least not in the precarious territory of getting to know someone.

“THE MOST IMPORTANT WOMAN IN MY LIFE IS MY MOTHER”
The relationship between sons and mothers is as problematic as that between mothers and daughters. Women may not understand this relationship, but they are canny enough to avoid embroiling themselves here at all costs. It spells danger red zone, three seconds to self destruct.

“I HATE WASTING MONEY ON GOING OUT FOR A MEAL”, or”DO YOU MIND PAYING THE TAB
Women like to be wooed and feel special. Don’t declare I am too tight on your first date. It may come out in the wash, but keep that piece of information to yourself.

“WHAT GREAT TITS YOU HAVE”
You know the story of “Little Red Riding Hood”, well you have just portrayed yourself as the Big Bad Wolf, the only thing worse you can say is “Let’s jump in the sack”

“I HATE USING CONDOMS!”
Women like their eggs in the morning preferably to be unfertilized! Not to mention the fact that the threat of disease is scary.

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Advantage Of Dating At Thirties

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Quite a number of women and men start their dating ventures at the age of thirty. They often spend their teens and twenties chasing their career goals and achieving other targets of life which are really essential to make a status in the society. This is the reason why they pay least attention to the trivial affairs like dating.
On the contrary you can also say that dating takes backseat in their lives. But suddenly when they approach thirty or land in the mid thirties they realize that all the material achievements are simply incomplete without a person to share the emotions. Then dating is the first thing that comes to their mind. They take it seriously and look for a good partner who is by all means an ideal match for them.
There are many advantages of starting the dating at thirties. As they have been single for quite some time now, both men and women will be really eager to get a date. This intensity and fervor in the heart leads them towards a successful dating affair. The maturity level of any person grows significantly from all aspects when they approach the age of thirty.
They become conscious about their personality and they no more fall for people who have only looks and nothing else. This is something common among the teenagers. But a thirty year old person will look for few things in their probable date or partner. They will like to know about the background of their date as this plays an important role in a relationship.
The outlook towards life and the priorities are also vital in an individuals life. If you are looking forward to a partner who will be at home and care for you and the person you are dating is extremely career conscious then this makes no sense. But this will never be overlooked by a thirty something man or woman.
They are matured enough to understand each others requirements. They will not fight over trivial matters and try to make adjustments.
Challenges for thirties dating
This is not the fact that the people in their thirties never face any sorts of challenges in their lives. Many of them will be eager to get a positive result from the relationships and like to proceed towards steady relationships with their dates.
You cannot afford to have any more broken affairs at this age. Sometimes the men and women face problems like hair fall, obesity etc which makes them less attractive than before. So it becomes challenging to get the perfect date in thirties.
Many of them feel confused about the age of their dates. Men do not know how young the girl should be than him and women are equally dicey about the mans age. These problems can be sorted out easily with self-confidence and determination.

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5 Quick Ways to Pickup Younger Women

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5 Answers For How to Pick Up Younger Women

Well, here you are, after all these years of being with one woman, starting to date again.  Or perhaps you’ve been so intent on your career that you haven’t had the time to date much.   Whatever the reason is, the desire is the same.  To begin to date again.

But you’ve been looking around and find that you want to date a younger woman.  Hey, go for it!  Just understand that there’s a difference on how to approach and date a younger woman.  Take the time to create a plan for the woman who is 18 to 24 years of age.

1.   The best place, hands down, to meet a younger woman is at her job.  She is the most at ease with others here.  If she works in a retail business, she’ll be talking with a lot of people that she doesn’t know, so approaching her will be as easy as making a purchase.

Other places to meet younger women are where most younger adults congregate.  There are numerous coffee shops, bookstores, bars and nightclubs that appeal to younger people and usually have younger women working in their employ.

2.  Younger women are looking for someone to treat them with the respect of a mature adult.  Not a boy.  Most of the guys she knows that are her age are still catching up to her on a mental and emotional level.  Definitely not her father.  But someone who can validate that she is an adult and, as such, is a person worth knowing for who she is.   This is very attractive to a woman of this age group.

3.  Women this age find a person who acts with confidence, good self-esteem, and a mature, positive attitude, very attractive.  They simply wanted to be with someone who acts the way they want to be treated.   Build on this aspect of who you are instead of trying to impress her with things.

4.  Take the time to build a rapport with her in conversation.  Don’t ask her out the first time around.  A couple of weeks to build some relationship areas in conversation will be much more beneficial in the long run.  This particular time is for building a friendship first.  Make sure that you are enjoyable to be around.  Be funny, but not silly.

Then, ask her out for a cup of coffee, a bite of lunch; something light and casual.  Light and casual are the keys at this time.

5.  Once you have gotten a date with her, continue to be lighthearted and relaxed.  Keep the atmosphere relaxed.  However, you can start to be a little more personal.  Look her in the eyes deeply.  Check out her smile.  Touch her hand while sitting across from her.  She’ll be the message very quickly.  And will likely return the favor.

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The Secrets Every Man Wants to Know About Women

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Women are rather fascinating don’t you think? They can be our greatest pleasure and also our greatest pain.

Women want to be lead by a man in life, if the women in your life are leading you and the relationship it is destined for failure. Women will continually test you and this is to ensure you that you are that man they want in their life and you don’t turn into a wuss.

Have you ever heard the word “Just Friends” or heard of someone who has this label? I know I am guilty of this, liking a girl so much and hanging around to find out there is no attraction there and to her we are “Just Friends”.

What about when you like a girl so much that if you don’t get what you want from her or she does not act the way you want her to you sabotage the relationship and all your insecurities and frustration come out and to find that the girl is gone, but you have never done this of course.

Women like to be surprised and experience spontaneous acts in their lives, have you ever surprised a woman you where attracted to, to find the attraction built and built? If a woman ever asks you “what do you want to do” never say “I don’t know, what do you think”, has this destroyed the attraction you had towards her.

Notice how when you seem to become comfortable the attraction dies between you and the female, so a rule of thumb is to never get comfortable in a relationship.

I used to seek approval from women thinking that if I gave them what it is they wanted, I would attract them and get what I wanted and boy I was wrong. Women are not logical so stop thinking they are.

You want to get the woman to be seeking your approval and you do this by having higher status and social status, by not giving your power away to her, by being a man.

To attract women you need to push those buttons inside of her and build attraction and as long as you are building attraction she will be seeking your approval and want more from you.

You must NOT go into a relationship to get something for yourself or an emotion to serve your needs, you must go into a relationship to give and what you give you get 10 folds back.

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Wishing you great success friend

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Have you Ever Wondered Why Women Cheat?

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So you want to know why women cheat? Well get ready because it’s rather simple. Have you ever had a relationship where everything is perfect, you can’t wait to see that person when you get home from work, you can’t stop thinking about them during the day and you just can’t get enough?

Have you noticed that the start of the relationship is where the magic tends to happen, where it is surprising and spontaneous and where you make that extra effort? Does it not make sense that 20 years from now your relationship with your girlfriend or wife will be stronger and not worse?

I have been guilty of doing what I am just about to tell you, I have met a woman and put all this energy and time into it to come to the realisation that I have done what I have to do and became, yep you guessed it comfortable.

It happens with friends too. Have you ever met a new group of friends and spent this first month with every spare moment you had until it just started to die because nobody made the effort anymore?

You must NEVER get comfortable in a relationship, you want to always be experiencing new events and building attraction.

Do you know anyone who has cheated on their husband or boyfriend? Have you asked them why? The main reasons I believe women cheat on men is simple because the guy gives her everything she wants, lets her lead the relationship and is no man but a boy.

Men who don’t put the time and energy in to make that spark with the women, the men who can’t say no to a woman, men who don’t make their own decisions for their own lives, men who seek approval from women, men who drop all of their plans to please the woman.

So why the hell would these women stay with these men if they don’t really want to be with them in the first place? That’s another simple answer, I believe that their security is there and they know they can come back and there guy will be there for them not asking any questions because they are too scared to lose them and they will support and care for them in the long term.

The reason women go to another man is number 1, he is a man and because they simply don’t feel that much attraction to their partners. Women want things they cannot have, its like anything that is scarce in life. Women want a man to say no to them, a CHALLENGE. If there is no challenge then its boring and there is no prize at the end of it.

So then how do you get it back if you lost the connection? Start as if you just met her and build attraction and anticipation. Find out what her needs are and be fun and playful but create that spark again in the relationship. There is a famous saying “what you resist persists.” So resist her at times make her work for it, don’t just give it up. Don’t women do this ALL the time to you? So it is only fair to play the game too.

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Wishing you great success friend

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